"Work: What Is It Good For?" was the topic of a rousing conversation recently. Because the twelve of us who were going to discuss the topic have done knowledge work and because different points of view do so much to stimulate, energize and inspire conversation, all were encouraged to read Matthew Crawford's article, "The Case for Working with Your Hands."
Crawford's article proved to be a provocative read, and, though there was disagreement with parts of it, with one point there was general agreement. Work done with your hands can't be outsourced! Given the current perplexity in the economy, that is a good thing.
"Work" carries a load, even as a word. The word "work" in the Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary has twenty-six definitions. Our definitions included working for pay/means of livelihood, volunteering for "symbolic" pay and engaging in any activity that involves effort. (One person observed, in planning a big birthday party, she had used all the skills she once used in publishing!)
What is the role of work in a life fully lived? To this question, there were as many responses as people in the room. For some, security has been/is paramount; for others, regular, messy upheaval has been most important. Many of the possibilities in between were presented as well.
In our career years, work was often the way we defined ourselves. I am lawyer, a doctor, a professor of English etc. However, at this stage of our lives, as I see it, we stand on the shore of a new invitation--to open our lives to something more--to what is left undone. To do this, it is important to let our hearts enjoy a different rhythm and to have the courage for a new approach to time.
"Allow [time] to slow until you find freedom to draw alongside the mystery you hold and befriend your own beauty of soul," is how John O"Donohue describes it in his blessing, "For Retirement." "Now is the time...to awaken the depths beyond your work and enter into your infinite source," he concludes.
If we are to accept this new invitation, then our relationship to work, as we knew it in our career years, has to change. One of the sweet discoveries of this place of transitioning is the different experience of time and all the discoveries that come with slowing down.
It is from this slowing down place that "our gaze seems to soften" (Crawford's phrase) and our definition of work, too. Work becomes "any activity (a new venture, or not) we choose that involves effort" along with (likely) feelings of pleasure, enjoyment and a sense of well-being.